Email

I sent this email to my husband today. I hope that it doesn't make him angry. I truly feel that this is what he wants as well, and I am hoping that he is more relieved than angry. However, sometimes, when the other person makes the first move, it still pisses you off no matter what.

"Mom said she would pay for us to get a divorce if we want to go ahead and file.
I would say we could file the papers ourselves, but I think it would just be more hassle than we can deal with right now. I’ll find the lawyer – since it is non-contested and we don’t have any assets (or children) it should be easy.

Let me know what you think"

I am really just looking for closure. He is having a lot of issues with his ex and his children right now. Let's just say, his ex is not treating his children the way they deserve to be treated, and has kicked two of them out. My husband is doing everything he can to help his children, and that is pretty much all I am going to say about that. I am trying to talk his eldest daughter into coming to stay with me. She is not really comfortable with any of her other options. She can stay with me until she decides where she wants to be, I don't care, as long as she is ok.

We are about to start a project at work, and I will get the opportunity to work full time AND over time for the next month or so! I am so excited! It could not have happened at a better time. School is out for a month, and I need the money so bad.