My husband called this morning and said he got the email last night, but didn't get the chance to respond. He didn't sound upset, he just mentioned that he didn't want to lose me. It sounded like he wants to make sure that we remain friends...but, really, I am not going to promise that. There are waaaaay too many factors, and to be honest, I really don't have time to be his friend. I don't have time to solve his problems. I need to work on my own. I don't have time to be his cheering section. I have to cheer myself on...Well, you get the idea. I am planning on taking time for me, and that doesn't involve being my ex husband's friend.
He didn't say much on the phone, we were both quiet. He said he would come up with an email response to my email, but that was hours ago, and I still don't have an email from him. He will be going off to work soon, so I probably wont get a return email until some crazy time in the a.m. when he gets off of work and can't sleep.
I am curious to what he has to say, but at the same time, he has a knack for hurting my feelings, and I am really not looking forward to any of that. Maybe, he will just be as straight to the point as I was. It is the thing to do. IT is the next step. Dragging it out, or lending too much of an explanation as to why we are getting divorced, at this point, will just be a waste of time. I am so hoping for a short and sweet email giving me the go ahead to hire the lawyer.
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